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Tummy Tuck Pain conpaired to C-Section? TT with Hernia Repair?

By shortmommyof2 on 02 Apr 2011

Hello everyone. I have been reading the posts on this site and I just wanted to say it has helped ease my anxiety. I am 33 years old, 5'2 and about 130 pounds at the moment (usually 124 but I am up a bit, trying to get back down before TT). I have 2 boys who were both 9 pounds at birth, both C sections, and my short, small body did not do well with it. I worked long and hard after my last baby to loose the weight - only to find that I have a large seperation in my abdominal muscles, an umbilical hernia and a pudgy belly that just wont go away. When I eat it gets even worse. My belly button pokes out and I look 5 months preg. My TT with hernia repair is scheduled for May 5th and I am getting nervous. I am going to my Mom's home post op and staying there for about 9 days. She is a nurse and will also be caring for my 2 and 6 year olds. I don't think I will be alone caring for the kids until around day 11. My husband can't take time off work and unless I get a friend to come over, I will have the kids most of the day. I am nervous that I won't be ready or that it is going to be much worse than I think. I have read stories about people not being able to be active for months. At the very least I will need to be able to prepare food for my kids and change some diapers. Any feedback or advice you can give would be wonderful. I'm already thinking of all the things I need to complete around the house before I am down and out after surgery. I'm not sure I can get it all done in less than 5 weeks. But, I also feel like at my age, if I can just make it through recovery, this will be so worth it. I'm tired of people thinking I am pregnant again. I also have scholiosis and I've been told that my weak abdominal muscles could be part of the reason my back hurts worse. I really do want to get it all fixed but I'm stressing about the recovery time. I've been through 2 c-sections so I know what that pain is like (getting up and walking and all that). Wondering how the TT pain compairs?? Thanks so much for your input. :)

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Angiemcc (Community Manager) 3 Apr 2011

I've read varying things from other women: that the tummy tuck pain is worse, that the cc pain is worse, etc. I think it really depends on the individual. But you have experience with abdominal surgery and pain, so you're ahead of the game there.

For additional feedback and support, you might want to consider posting your story in our review community where it will be seen by even more RealSelf users. Good luck and please let us know how you're feeling as the big day comes closer.

shari1969 4 Apr 2011
if after day 11 your home alone w/ the kids,just remember that IT IS OK to give your kids microwave pizza and easy foods for the time your healing.If the house is a mess w/ toys..no one will care...you can do it later....even if its a month later,there just toys ect...You could pre-make some lunch meals that they like...stock up on paper plates and bowls to avoid any dishes. Make a trip to the dollar store and stock up on a bag full of little toys and treats. When they are getting bored,or your getting bored..lol..take out something new,this will occupy them for a little while.Things like play doh and coloring books,things that are fun but quiet.Put their fav DVD's where you can reach them. I bet your 6yr old will be alot more help than you think. hope this helps !!
illinois8551 4 Apr 2011
Let me tell you my experience. Angiemcc is correct, every individual is different. Each person has a slightly or hugely different experience. But, I have had 3 c-sections and each one of those experiences was better and easier than the first. And my last one was 7 years after the middle child. SO there was a long break in between c-sections. By the thirs c-section I was pretty much getting along by myself 24 hours later. The worst part for me with the c-sections and this TT,MR, and Lipo was getting up and down from sitting or laying position. I am not going to lie and tell you there is no discomfort but it was minimal for me, very similar to the sections. Similarities for me include....cath to urinate, incision discomfort, irregular BM's, inability to use ab muscles at first. Difficulty getting up and down.
Differences...drains (a pain but needed) MR discomfort, inability to stand up straight, extreme swelling and some burning, easily exhausted, binder.
All in all, my experience was very much like the c-sections. I was back to work at 12 days post op. At 6 days post op the drains came out and then my 17 month old was put into the hospital for RSV. So I had to put the recovery on the back burner untill my baby was better and then it just all seems normal now. I was cleared to go to the gym at 6 days post op, treadmill, eliptical and bike. I am doing some leg and arm work but only if it doesn't cause ab strain. I also have lower back pain and scholiosis. My lower back pain hasn't flared up since the surgery. I hope the binder is helping the curve in my back, we will see.
My thoughts are the c-section pain is much worse,after all they cut into the muscle. That isn't what happens with a TT. Hope that helps
illinois8551 4 Apr 2011
I meant my last section was 17 months ago, 7 years after the the second c section.
shortmommyof2 4 Apr 2011
Thank you all for the feedback! I am stocking up on things I will need once I get home. I'm even setting some money back and thinking of looking for someone to help clean my house for a few weeks after the surgery because I know that will lower my anxiety level. I've also talked to a friend about helping me with my kids some the first few days I get back from my Moms. I'm hoping I will not need it that badly but I'm glad I'm getting prepared anyway. My first c section was harder than my second also. I think I just knew what to expect and I was prepared for the pain and I was able to cope better. I'm really hoping that will work to my advantage with the TT. I know what the discomfort and stuff feels like, the getting up and down and all that so at least I know a little bit about what I may experience. Also Im going to ask at my pre op about medications. After my second c section I really hated the pain meds that knocked me out and made me loopy. But they also started giving my prescription strength 800mg Motrin. I thought - Motrin, I can get that at Walmart. But let me tell you it was my wonder drug. I felt like a new woman and like I had not just been cut open. I know I may want the knock you out drugs for a few days but I would also like some pain meds that will leave me in my right mind so I can be with my family some. I have dealt with my "Tummy issues" for so long now that it is hard to believe that I will get my normal body back! It's just too good to be true. Thanks again for all the info. I hope to get some good before and after pics to share later on. Right now I'm work, work, working to get little projects at home done before surgery. Only 4 weeks!
JustJulia 17 Apr 2011
let me just say this..TAKE UR MEDS!!!!!!
give in to them..for the first few weeeks at least..dont expect miracles..dont expect to look "perfect" as a result either...i have bulges nbow where i never had them before! exchanged one set of problems for asnother!!
BikiniDreaming 19 Apr 2011
Hi Shortmommy,
As said before we all have different experiences, however thought I would share mine. I had 2 c-sections, the first was an emergency because my 9 lb 6oz baby's head was just not getting through my pelvis - the 2nd was elective and done via epidural. With both I was in hospital for 8 days, with a slow recovery.
The TT was a different story, I am only 4 days post op but the main difference is I went into the op extremely fit and healthy (not weighed down with 3 extra stone of baby etc prior to procedure), of course I am 20-25 years older (at 49) than last time, but my body strength must be making a vast difference.
I thought it would hurt to cough and sit up, walk etc, but have had no pain at all, and found movement quite easy. The only problem I am having is lower back ache, which I think is due to the tightness of the front, and I can't feel it at the moment lying in my recliner...
BMs have been easy from day 2 with the aid of prunes & greek yogurt for breakfast, and prune juice. I am going to lay off these tomorrow though as I went 4 times today, and that is excessive by anyones standards.
From day 2 I walked up and down my garden, today I walked to the local store and back (around .5km), tomorrow I will go to the park and walk about 2km.
Had my first shower today, wore my first bikini in 25 years (kept my binder on though) and sat out in the garden with friends for a couple of hours. My personal experience of TT with MR (no lipo) is therefore much easier than c-sections. Hope yours is the same :)
shortmommyof2 22 Apr 2011
Thank You!I had my pre op this week and my Dr. thinks I'm not going to have any trouble due to my age and physical fitness level. I hope he is right. I am prepared for it to be rough but I am hoping to be pleasantly surprised. We will see what happens!
Ldywldr 2 May 2011
Dear Shortmommyo,
Wow I am so amazed that somebody else has almost the same physical problems as I do.! Scoliosis, weak abdominal muscles(can't even hold my torso up when standing without using my arms to push & a cane to walk!) And that damn umbilical hernia, I always had a beautiful inny belly button before ! For my back, my Dr. says I must fix the hernias and try to strengthen what I can, there's no fighting the scoliosis any other way. Since I was going to use a general surgeon originally and Ins. would have paid it all, do you think that Ins. will pay for the anesthesia, operating room costs and hosp stay and just NOT pay the surgeons fee because he's a plastic surgeon ? How is yours to be paid ?
shortmommyof2 2 May 2011
We are not filing insurance. Our deductible is very high and insurance was only going to cover the hernia anyway. Insurance would not have even paid anything because of my deductible. Plus, my family knows my doctor personally and he has waved a few of his fees. So I am paying out of pocket. My surgery is this Thursday. I am a little nervous but my doctor thinks my case is going to go really well. He says I am the perfect candidate. So we will see......
Ldywldr 3 May 2011
Hey Shortmommy ! This Thurs ! That's wonderful! I'm sure everything will go well and you'll wake up so relieved that it's over.
That same day I'll be having my first consult appt., so I'll be thinking about you !! What state , city, or hosp. are you having this done ? My appt is at Lenox Hill in Manhatten, and I have another consult. at No. Cen. Bx hosp. later in May.
I'm only just starting this journey. Please post and let us know how you do, and I'll be especially curious how your scoliosis does in the future (I'm hoping mine slows progression with increased abdomen strength!)
Good Luck, Karen
shortmommyof2 6 May 2011
Hi. I had my TT yesterday morning. I think I'm doing pretty well. They said the surgery went great now I am resting at my parents house (they are watching my kids because my husband has to go back to work Sunday). I am in Meridian, MS and my procedure was done at a outpatient Plastic Surgery Center. I don't know yet how this well effect my scoliosis but I'll have to wait and see. I'll post some pics later on when I feel up to it. The pain has not been bad for me. My two c sections were worse pain. There is soreness and a general ache but not bad pain. The worst part for me has been nausea, dizziness, and a general all over feeling of weakness. My blood pressure has dropped a few times when I try to get up to go to the bathroom and I've almost blacked out. I think the pain meds are causing my nausea so I am backing off of them some. I have one drain and some swelling but I don't think it is that bad.
BikiniDreaming 13 May 2011
Hi Shortmommy, great that you have started your recovery - hope everything is going well for you.
Angiemcc (Community Manager) 15 May 2011

Glad to hear you're doing so well and that you have a good support system around you!

Buffy0 15 May 2011
Hello everyone -- and thank you shortmommyo for starting this thread. My TT is scheduled for May 24th and I'm feeling very nervous about the whole thing. I kept going online to read reviews about the procedure and keep getting all the bad stuff -- making my anxiety worse!

I have had 2 babies -- both C-sections and the same ages as your kids. I will be 40 years old in a few weeks -- so I guess this is my birthday present to myself. I have managed to lose most of my baby weight everyone else but my awful belly! It just hangs there and looks horrid. Also, makes running and exercising for me harder -- I feel like it adds weight or something.

I recovered from my c-sections pretty well -- my doctor thought I was a fast healer and said I did amazing. Was back to my regular stuff after a few days and even with my yucky belly - the incision itself is pretty much invisible or hard to see - doctor said I have good genes. I'm hoping the TT is similar since I've been through a c-section twice. I would love to check back on this message board to see how you are recovering and get any tips from anyone. Thanks all!
shortmommyof2 16 May 2011
If you are anything like me, you will do great. I was so nervous. But it went really well and now I am doing great. I'm about 11 days post op and taking care of my kids with no problems. I just can't pick up anything heavy and I get tired really easy and have to sit down. But I get stronger each day. My drain is still in but it should come out by Wednesday. As far as pain, my c sections caused more pain. As I said in another post, the pain meds after my TT did a number on me. I think they made me feel worse. Within 48 hours after surgery I was on tylenol only, tylenol pm to help me sleep. I'm standing up nice and straight now, still some swelling by the end of each day. The skin on my belly had been numb after surgery but now the feeling is starting to come back in places and its kind of like pins and needles when your foot goes to sleep. Its not too bad. The mid line of my tummy is still numb. I just started using the ScarAway silicone strips, they say they really help, so we will see. They feel good on my incision. I bet you will do great. Check back, I plan to try to get some pics on here later.
Buffy0 18 May 2011
So great to hear from you and thank you for the reply. I'm happy to hear you are on your road to a good recovery.

Do you think your diet is helping you as well? I went to see my doctor and she wanted me to meet with the nutritionist on staff to help me through the recovery -- they said eating the right foods could totally help with my healing and avoid excessive swelling. I guess that would make sense -- was wondering what you are doing.

Meds did a number on me too after my C-section. I stopped taking those meds the day after I got home from the hospital and did the same as you -- Tylenol only and felt much better. Good suggestion about Tylenol PM. I already have some in my cabinet on hand.

Part of my lower belly now has lots its sensation -- so not having that will not be anything new. I have a lot of hanging skin from my belly area -- even if I were to get rid of just that one piece I would be more than happy! :)

I have 5 days to go before my surgery -- getting excited, scared and still very anxious about the whole thing. But, I keep looking at my enormous belly and know this is the right thing to do for me.
shortmommyof2 19 May 2011
The first 4 or 5 days after, I really did not have any appetite anyway. I ate the activia yogurt everyday to help with constipation. Other than that I drank protein drink and stuff just in order to have something on my stomach with my medicine. Since my appetite came back, I've been trying to watch what a eat. Cutting back on calories because I would still like to loose 8 pounds. Other than that, I've not done anything special, diet wise. I worked in the yard some today, and I feel pretty good. I think I'm doing really well. My drain came out yesterday. Good Luck!!!
shortmommyof2 16 May 2011
Could someone please tell me how to post photos on here?????
Katie C 21 May 2011
Hi there,
My C section was a breeze compared to the tummy tuck. I was however up and about, soon after the tummy tuck. Rest for a good two weeks after that it gets better. Hope all goes well. x x x
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Philly215 21 Jul 2011
Hi I am 36 years old and thinking about getting a TT within the next few weeks. I took the first step yesterday when I went for a consultation; I am extremely nervous and starting to freak out. I am scaring my self because I can’t stop thinking about the pain during recovery. I have only 1 child and it’s been many years since I gave birth. I don’t have a high tolerance for pain and I just keep thinking that I will not be able to do this. What scares me the most is thinking about the drainage tubes being removed, does it hurt when they are removed? How bad is the pain on a scare from 1 – 10 ?
Philly215 21 Jul 2011
Hi I am 36 years old and thinking about getting a TT within the next few weeks. I took the first step yesterday when I went for a consultation; I am extremely nervous and starting to freak out. I am scaring my self because I can’t stop thinking about the pain during recovery. I have only 1 child and it’s been many years since I gave birth. I don’t have a high tolerance for pain and I just keep thinking that I will not be able to do this. What scares me the most is thinking about the drainage tubes being removed, does it hurt when they are removed? How bad is the pain on a scare from 1 – 10 ?

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