I had twins, I have loose skin, hernia & need muscle repair so I'm getting a tummy tuck. My close friends & family react negative to the idea of getting a tummy tuck. They say things like, "the scar is gonna look horrible! But how are you gonna hold your babies?" I've even heard, "but you already have fake boobs, Now your gonna be all fake." I'm confident in my decision but I'm not very good with "come backs". What should I say to the negative Nancy's I know I will encounter in the near future?