Hi ladies. I've been on this site now for about 3 weeks and I love reading all your reviews. I have one up and have updated. I really would like to be a buddy with someone who is going for surgery around my time. I am 38, going to be 39 this month and I am giving myself this wonderful present after 3 kids. I have wanted bigger breasts since my second child and nursing. They just deflated like a balloon. Then I got divorced and then put the idea of boobs aside. I found my partner in life shortly after the divorce and had to decide on another child b/c he is 6 years younger than me. Being in the best shape of my life, modeling and living at the gym, I had to decide.... another child???? WOW, thought I was done. But he is an amazing man and he deserved a child. So, my baby boy is 15 months next week, I nursed him through the damn pump b/c he wouldn't latch. that damn thing pulled my nipples like a freaking hot dog, my daughter called it. So....I decided it was time. M ex husband finally paid my divorce settlement from 6 years ago~!! AND i AM USING HALF ON ME! The other half went to my new house and improvements as well as for the kids and what they might have needed. I went on 3 consults and the third blew me away. I love him and he is an amazing man, very philantrhopic, warm and really cared about what I needed and wanted. I go on my pre op on 11/25 with a friend to find out all the info and finish up paying! I have so many questions 1. What kind of bra they give? 2. What kind of pillow do Ineed? 3. DO I really need to buy all button down shirts for a few weeks? AM I not really going to be able to lift my hands up? ANyway...... if there is anyone out there that would like to be my surgery buddy, that would be awesome! thanks!