Can anyone tell me who to see and not see in Dallas for a face lift?

I don't know of anyone I can personally recommend, but there are a couple community members from Dallas who have had a facelift. You can read their reviews on the right-side of the page here (click "View All" to get the full list): http://www.realself.com/find/Texas/Dallas/Facelift

You can also narrow your search by looking through the "Doctor Finder" link above, which only lists board-certified providers. That's a good place to start.