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This Question is for my Bbl Sisters when People Asked You Questions Aboutt Your Change What Did You Tell Them?

  • Msbrandnew1
  • 1 year ago

Just wondering how you addressed the Nosey people?

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Hey hunn this is how i feel its nobody's business but your own. And plus its based on the attitude u carry if ppl feel that comfortable asking u personal questions, then u must Mk some adjustments in how u carry yourself. U cn be friendly but not overaccomadating where u feel pressured into responding.
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And talking abt going back to work and getting there are two different things. I wear tight pencils skirts and slacks that fit... I dare someone to say anything other than u lost weight. And I've seen eyes go down and questionable stares but excuse my French... Who The Fuck cares or dares for to ask me that!? But I'm happy tho... N who gonna stop us
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I dont think no one should be ashamed to say my booty was enhanced. Afterall its our fat cell that is being used. It is not an implant. If anyone ask when i get mine done i will tell them its the new me.
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We don't owe anybody no explanation justlike they ddidn't feel they owed us an apology for insulting our body shape. I only told one person that's it. I hope to get surgery next march
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Its crazy like if anything the ppl who I work with make me feel the most insecure. I wear a long shirt everyday while all the big booty girls wear leggings n crop tops. Ppl go out of they way to ask me why I wear long shirts. I cursed out at least three ppl behind this . All I know is my focus now is saving my money for my bbl. The same fukked up ppl who tease us few women at the job who have no ass gonna be the first ones asking about did I have surgery . Im so done with ppl they don't understand how hurtful they words are just gonna hold my head up high n be doing me once I get this bbl I cant wait
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No one understands how it feels up be in a society with curvy girls get all the attention & those that lack get made fun of. It's almost as if we have a disease & they feel making fun of us will cute our ailment. Now that we have a solution the hate begins bcus how dare we cure ourselves.
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Preach sista .... I couldn't have said it any betta
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Oh and btw u look phenominal. I read ur blog and I felt like I was reading a story about myself in when u had ur personal testimony on how ppl made u feel.
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What I plan on telling people is that I'm waist training, and I went through/going through an extensive booty/body bootcamp.. Heck, we've all seen the miraculous transformations of those that have done Insanity, or p90x, right?!? That's my story, and I'm sticking to it!
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Yup I'm with u on that
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Money well spent ...lol
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I like that Shavon6305... Keep it simple money well spent & walk away. Lol!
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Lol
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I wrote another question on the forum like this one but I think it's still in moderation. I have no problem being upfront with my close friends and lying to acquaintances who should mind their business, but what about employers? If I'm taking off two weeks to recover my boss is going to be concerned and think I am ill or something. I feel strange lying to a boss but at the same time, BBL is really a very personal thing and I wouldn't ever want to have that convo with my boss lol. Any ideas?
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86baby I haven't come with anything solid. I'm off during the summer so I was thinking a "butt & gut" boot camp lol, but the change might be so dramatic. I said fuck it I'm just gonna plead the fifth. I don't know I'm stuck too. I mean my work acquaintances are very observant and comment even when I change my hairstyle, when I wear heals they comment if I have new jewelry so this will be a problem. Lets figure this out together girl.
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I'm a person who has nothing to hide, weather they need to know or not. I feel like the only ones that should be asking you are your close family and or friends. I straight gonna keep it real and tell them "I bought me a body" ;)
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Lol... So forget the Nosey ppl at work! I hear that. Thanks honey because I teach & I know come Sept they'll be on it, I change my hair they're on it, I gain a lb they're on it I mean it's crazy.
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I was wondering the same thing
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I guess we tell the MYB... Or a more polite way butt & gut bootcamp!
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