Hi everyone :)im in the early stages of planning my BA. It's something I've wanted to do for years, and since having 2 kids I want it even more. It was in my plans long before I was married or had even met my husband. However, my husband is NOT on board. I love him to bits and am so lucky that he loves me just as I am, but- and I've tried (unsuccessfully) to explain to him- I'm not doing it for him! Or anyone else for that matter. It's for me, and my self image. Unfortunately he thinks that the cost both money-wise and of my reputation aren't worth it when he doesn't see anything wrong. He thinks everyone will notice, and gossip. I already wear a bra that adds 2 cup sizes, and don't want to go a whole lot bigger than That anyway, so I've tried explaining that no one pays that close attention to my boobs but him. No one will notice, and quite frankly, even if they do..who cares?! I just don't know how to explain to him the impact that breasts have on a woman's confidence and sense of self. In my heart I know I want them..I always have. But when I try to put it in to logical words that would make him understand, I just can't! Can anyone offer any advice?