I feel like I am in a bit of a bind and cant decide what to do. I do not want to tell my parents about it before the procedure because I feel like they would try to talk me out of it, hate me for spending that money, make me feel stupid for unnecessary surgery (especially as my mum was sick when i was younger) and be very angry at me as well as never look at me the same.I guess part of me is hoping they wont notice it too much as I only want minor surgery and I only see them about twice a year as I live abroad. But maybe that is me being silly? They are my parents after all.Then part of me is scared that if something goes wrong I dont have them there to help me. Also if they knew about it and understood I guess maybe they would help me out with money and care so maybe I could afford going to the best surgeon possible as I feel they would want that for me. I dont like keeping things from them but I really need to do this surgery for me. If only there was some way for them to understand how important it is and has always affected me.so it is such a gamble I feel and I dont know what to do!