How do I tell someone my breasts are fake?

  • LouiseD23
  • 1 year ago

It's been about six months since I got my BA and I love them! They look and feel great! However, my boyfriend of a year and I just broke up two months ago and I'm starting to date, be social again. I've been talking to a few exes (aye yi yi) lol via txt and we exchanged pictures and both guys were like did you get a boob job?! and I said yes, i made a few alterations since you've seen me last! and then I aways get the they look great but you didnt need to do that! I say thanks and move on. But I'm really worried about having to tell a potential bf that I have fake boobs! I know a lot of guys are anti-implants and I hate to think it would hurt my chances with someone but I dont want to lie either...? I never even thought about this before I got them because I thought I was with "the one". I'm super nervous and a little insecure for this to come up.. I'm not sure how to handle it when it does... Any suggestions?! 

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If it "hurts your chances with someone", are they even worth it? The fact is, YOU love your boobs. A good man will find his woman sexier when she feels sexier. Don't worry about it. :)
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Guys always profess to hate implants, but who do they drool over? Skinny girls with big implanted boobs. And they are generally clueless at knowing, unless they are extremely large or hardened. If you have your old fb pics up, they might figure it out and you won't have to say anything. It's the same as nose jobs...we say we don't like them, but basically every attractive person in Hollywood has one.
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If a guy asks you if they are real tell them yes the are real just real expensive!
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Hi Louise I think its a non starter most guys will probablly know or have an idea, if they are so not into implants that will just drop off sort of speak. but on the other side most men are into large boobs so i would not worry lol
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I don't think it's anyone's business until they put a ring on your finger. If they think you're 'shallow', how shallow are they to care? Ask them this- do they eat thanksgiving turkey stuffed or unstuffed? Do they care, because the rest of you is certainly 'real' and just as delicious either way!
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What a great thread. Thanks for starting this! I think if a guy really gets to know you and likes who you are inside, he isn't going to let implants stand in the way of a relationship. And if he does, I guess that tells you a little something about him sooner rather than later. ;)

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Yup, Angie, what you said! Personally, I am confident enough in my choices, and if some guy is put off, too bad, so sad, cuz I'm just AMAZING, with or without boobs. I am not getting them for anyone but ME. If any man is happy to enjoy them with me, bonus!
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You can see em so they are REAL (just enhanced!) I don't think most men will care and if they do they won't be worth your time!
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