I'm scheduled for a mini tummy tuck in August... I've not told any of my family and feel completely unable to. I'm sure they would judge me and tell me it's stupid / a waste of money and that it was a bad decision to spend so much money on something 'trivial' and vain. I know the reasons I am having this done, but doubt they would understand how important it is to me. My ex husband is going to have the children for me for 2 weeks after the surgery, to give me time to recover, but I live alone (with my kids usually) and am just wondering if it's insane to do this when I'll have no support / nobody at home to look after me... I just feel like I am not up to telling anyone and facing their criticism. Anybody else done this alone??