Ok ladies I need your opinions!!

  • FlaGrown84
  • Central FL
  • 1 year ago

Hi girls! So to make a long story short, I've been wanting larger fuller perky pretty breasts for several years now. I've finally, after researching doctors, have made a consultation appt with one doc and plan on making another appt with another doc soon. I'm a pretty big girl, 5'8 200lbs (on a good day!) and wear a size 38D. I've recently lost about 30lbs and still feel I need to lose about about 20-30. I absolutely hate my breasts.... At 28 I have the breasts of a much much older woman, saggy grossness. In a bra they look alright, but just don't have that full perky cleavage look that I'd like to have.   Here's where your advice and opinions come in: Should I wait to lose the extra weight before I have my BA? And secondly what do you think of *plus sized* women with or getting BAs? I've looked on the internet at hundreds of before and afters, most of the women are thin and not on the heavier side like me. I feel a little awkward and self conscious about all this, and just really wonder if I'll be able to achieve the look I'm going for with out adding to my already large frame and looking silly with nice pretty boobs and an over weight body. :( When I've mentioned to my family and friends that I want a BA everyone has replied the same way, WHY?! You don't need it!!! Even the fiancé says the same things that he loves the girls and doesn't see why I need to be any bigger/different. But he has come around after I've expressed how much I hate my body and how I feel that after a BA, I know I will feel so much better about myself etc. Any advice or options you can give, I'd love to hear what you think. Finding this site and reading what everyone has to say and all the first hand stories really has helped me. Thank you ladies! :)

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Yes been there.. Do lose the weight fuly frost makes a diffrence on ypur decision..and uplifted breast on large woman make them..look slimer.. But if that is your pic..you to not look heavy at all?..good luck..please think long and hard about the decision.. But recommend to be at your ideal weight 1st
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unfortunately for you, your view on what is beautiful is twisted. I think you have beautiful breasts, very womanly. the tight round breast that all women seem to want looks terribly fake and as a normal red blooded male with moderate tastes, natural wins everytime. they are lovely, dont change them.
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You can always get another opinion from another PS. I had my arms done last year and I got 4 opinions and they prices were all different. If you want to lose 30 more lbs that might make a difference. But as the PS. Just a thought.
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You Should get a life they will be super perky and full after, dont get implants you have plenty of your own breast tissue. They will look bigger when they are lifted
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Yes I would definitely lose the weight first and get what makes YOU feel good! I'm sure with the right bra your girls look great, but that isn't what you are looking for. I lost over 30 pounds last year before I got my BA. Have you have a consult with a surgeon yet? With big enough implants you may not need a lift. Even my own primary care doc asked me why I was getting boobs lol .. People just don't understand. ;) Please feel free to take a look a my profile .. I did not post any naked pics but I may soon. I had sagging deflated B's. (I breast fed almost 18 years ago.) Good luck and feel free to ask me any questions! Good luck with everything!
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Just took a peek at your pics, you look great! That's the cleavage look I'm going for! :) I had a consultation last Thursday, the dr said I would def need a lift and suggested 450cc however I liked the 500 lol I'd rather be bigger than smaller! I understood what he said about needing the lift so nipple placement would be where it's supposed to be and so that the implant wouldn't be high and my breast would be low and still saggy. I just wasnt really expecting the lift, I'm super scared of the scars that come with it (anchor inscison) not mention the extra price. Holy cow was I shocked when the estimate was 10k!!! I see the prices paid on here and they must be with out the extra fees from the operating room, anesthesia and the actual implant cost. That was a bit of an eye opener, I'm getting married in Nov and trying to stay within a budget so my BA just might have to wait. :((( I was really hoping to have nice new boobies for my wedding dress and honeymoon!
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Morning! I would go bigger lol .. everyone is so different. I showed a pic of one of my doc's patients to him and said I wanted to look like her and be a D cup. He suggested 425 cc's, mod profile, silicone, under the muscle. I ended up with 457's and I kind of wish I went bigger LOL. I guess it is probably for the better, I can disguise them during my professional day job and since I ride horses, it is probably best I don't have porn star boobies although when I go back in several years to get them replaced I may go bigger. Someone else I know, started with much smaller boobs than me (AA) and went with less ccs and ended up bigger than me! Sooo, you never know. The cost does seem high and the breast lift scars are probably not that pleasant but once they heal there are SO many ways to minimize them. I would take out a credit card and DO IT! Ha ha .. easy for me to say but in light of your upcoming wedding and honeymoon - I think you should do it. Either way, I'm sure you will look great! ;o)
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Thank you for being brave and sharing on RealSelf!

Personally, I think you have pretty breasts. But I know you won't believe me. :)

If you're for sure planning on losing more weight, I'd do that before the BA. You don't want your results compromised by weight loss/body transformation.

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