did any of you ladies have problems with your better half NOT wanting you to do have a MM?
By shaye from illinois on 11 May 2011
I am having so many problems with him being ok with this. He thinks it is a mental thing and that I need to just " be happy" with the way I look because he is! I cannot convince him that I would feel so much better about myself and that intimate things in our relationship would even be better. He thinks that him telling me that I am sexy should be enough. I try to tell him that I have to feel it not hear it. He told me today, when I mentioned, again, that I want a mommy makeover, that he figured it would take money or something to with money to make me happy. I just wish that he understood what having 4 kids can do you inside and out! I will never be able to get this done if he doesnt agree because it will take his credit to get it. Please, if you have advise let know!!
We actually just wrote a blog post about this. You can find it here! Also, check out this forum post with more than 100 responses about unsupportive significant others. I truly hope this helps! Let us know if he "gets it" and decides to help you proceed.