Hi everyoneI am 5 months post op and have lost a total of 38.5 kg. I feel great and can wear the clothes I want to now. The problem I have is my husband is acting so stupid and jelous and refuses to give me any compliments. We went out to dinner last night and as usual I hardley ate anything so he says its no fun going out with you anymore!!! Then he proceeds to tell me you think your pretty hot dont you???? WTF??? So I was upset and we drove all the way home without saying a word. I told him pull into the pub I want a bottle of wine ( I know but believe me by then I was pretty pissed off and so depressed) . Anyway the woman who owns the place has not seen me in months and says OMG you look fantastic, even her son (who looks about 25 mind you) said shes gorgeous. How sweet. That lifted my mood. So I excitedly tell my husband saying why dont you say things like that to me and all he says is dont tell me what to say or do. I feel so depressed I dont know what to do. Its making me feel like I cant enjoy this journey to health because of his negativity.