Husbands Reaction to Breast Lift and Augmentation

  • JULIE1968
  • Herkimer NY
  • 1 year ago

I have my breast lift and augmentation perfromed June 13th, 2012. my problem is my husbands reaction. He acts like he doesn't care one way or the other and does not comment on the surgery unless prompted by me. I have not prompted him to but he has made no attempt to touch them. I am wondering why this is - Could it be that he really doesn't care one way or the other? Am I doing something wrong?

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Best of luck with your surgery! I keep reiterating this to my husband and pay a little more attention to him - that helps. Plus believe it or not I don't feel any bigger :-) isn't that a wierd thing to say :-) and I had 540 cc saline implants put in. It's odd but true. So, I don't think I act any different than I always have when it comes to the way I dress act etc. I even wear the same size dresses, and shirts. Its such an odd thing - the way we see our selves; appearently its different than what our husbands see.
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Curious how this turned out. How do you think he feels about it now?
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My husband still doesn't really say much, although i have caught his expression that appeared to be positive when I wore a dress or sweater that excentuated my breasts. I agree now with what the doctor's said i think he was wondering if it would change the dynamics of our relationship - which it has not and I personally knew would not. I was only hoping to make myself happy and if it made our relationship better than that would be an added plus. All in all I think he likes them
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Some men are also afraid to seem to excited about the change because they don't want to seem as though they didn't like the way you looked before. He may also be afraid of hurting you, especially if you experienced significant discomfort after the procedure. I would talk to him about it if I were you. Let him know that you're happy with your new figure, and you want for him to be happy, too. Maybe this can open a dialogue about what's holding him back. After all, he's the only one that can really explain what's going on in his head. Hope things get better for you guys.
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Lovin that name, breasto... :)
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He's probably not comfortable with the change, he's sorting out how it's going to change the dynamic of your relationship. He's likely wondering if you are going to act different now because of your new look. How will that impact your marriage. He's maybe wondering if your going to use this new sex appeal to attract unwanted attention. Give him time and don't push him for a reaction, let him come around to it in his own way.
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I could not have said this better. That is exactly what I believe my husband feels. Plus he keeps telling me how he loves my breasts how they. Are. He also said I turn heads now and not comfortable with this so how will I feel drawing more attention to myself...he also has shown that he is worried about other members looking at me etc. I just keep reiterating that this is for me and that he will love my body even more. 7days for my surgery
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