Husbands Reaction to Breast Lift and Augmentation

By JULIE1968 on 10 Aug 2012

I have my breast lift and augmentation perfromed June 13th, 2012. my problem is my husbands reaction. He acts like he doesn't care one way or the other and does not comment on the surgery unless prompted by me. I have not prompted him to but he has made no attempt to touch them. I am wondering why this is - Could it be that he really doesn't care one way or the other? Am I doing something wrong?

Comments (2)

breastochangeo 13 Aug 2012

Some men are also afraid to seem to excited about the change because they don't want to seem as though they didn't like the way you looked before. He may also be afraid of hurting you, especially if you experienced significant discomfort after the procedure. I would talk to him about it if I were you. Let him know that you're happy with your new figure, and you want for him to be happy, too. Maybe this can open a dialogue about what's holding him back. After all, he's the only one that can really explain what's going on in his head. Hope things get better for you guys.

Sea 24 10 Aug 2012

He's probably not comfortable with the change, he's sorting out how it's going to change the dynamic of your relationship. He's likely wondering if you are going to act different now because of your new look. How will that impact your marriage. He's maybe wondering if your going to use this new sex appeal to attract unwanted attention. Give him time and don't push him for a reaction, let him come around to it in his own way.