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Friends do not support my decision to get a tummy tuck ... help

  • JocieMama
  • Cliffside Park, NJ
  • 3 years ago

Well to explain better I have been married for 4 years and with my husband for almost 10 years. I started the process of looking into doctors for my tummy tuck and a few weeks later found out my husband was having an affair. I put my search on hold until I figured out my marriage. We are together now and have been for about two months. When I told my friends they were furious and said I should not be getting a tummy tuck because the affair made me feel bad about myself. The tummy tuck is my choice I have been wanting it for years. I wanted it long before the affair started and planned it still even before I knew if I would allow my husband back into my life. I am getting annoyed with their negative attitude towards something I am so excited for. Should I just ignore their comments? Does anyone have any advice to show them that there is nothing wrong with me doing something for me?