I haven't always felt like my butt wasn't good/big enough until I reached my 20s . I think part of it is the media . But I hate to admit that part of it is my husbands influence . He loves me either way but he always points out how small my butt is and its definitely had its impact on me. I want to get the surgery but I am unsure if I am doing it for the wrong reasons so I am asking what was it that made you want a butt lift?