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# of Children before your TT? After TT did you regret not having more children?

  • CAMILLE20
  • 2 years ago

We have 2 children, a boy and girl.  Most days I feel we are complete and I really really want my body back.   we struggled to have kids (6 yrs of infertility and treatments) so even if I wanted another it might never happen and Ive put off sooo much in  my life to constantly try to have children...Im just ready to put ME first..but that feels sooo selfish.   Just wanted to see if anyone else had similar worries?

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Not for a moment but we had our kids in our late 30's so the thought of another birth in my 40's..no thank you. My youngest is in his TERRIBLE 2's right now and it is a constant reminder that I am so happy I got my tubes tied after him!! ;)
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we have 2 1 boy and 1 girl I had a total hysterectomy a few years ago so even we wanted another that option is out LOL
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We have 3 kids, boy, girl, boy...and we are definitely done. I have always wanted 3...DH only wanted two for awhile...so he is definitely good with 3! He needs to go under the knife next...soon after my TT and get snipped! ;)
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I have 5 kids (4 Girls and 1 boy) and I'm 100% finished having kids.
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I have 2 (son is 10, daughter is almost 4) I am scheduled for Aug. 2 and I have my moments where I think I may want another, but they are not strong enough for me to change my mind. This was a year worth of deciding before we decided and agreed on no more kids and momma doing something just for her =)
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Thank you for the replies ladies!
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I have 3 boys, all 10 years apart, talk about fertility issues lol..I was told I couldn't have kids and now I have 3 angels. anyway yes I would like another one but since i'm having them every 10 years I don't want to be a new mom again at 49. I do not regret nor will I regret not having more children. After I have my TT I will be able to do more than what I do now with my kids and grandchildren.
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I have 3 children and it also took us time for them. My husband always asks about another but at times i have to remind him what is in store for their future and the cost of all of it, so three is a blessing. I've never been on birth control because of the side affects. So after that discussion we both agreed it was a good for something for mommy. Yes at times you feel like your being selfish but your not. Its hard to put ourselves first but its ok to do it. Up until I did my TT & BA i was always talking to myself about what else i could do with the money but in the end im very happy that i did it.
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