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Breast Lift and Reduction Survival Guide

By Kimmers25 on 31 Dec 2010

After my breast lift and reduction, I decided to put together a Survival Guide for other women going through it, too. You can read my review here.

If you are considering this procedure that means you are probably fed up with the sore neck, back, shoulders and top heavy feeling. I really hated my breasts for years. And after childbirth, being more than 40, hormone replacement therapy, and just basic frustration with my breasts I finally took action.

By the time I finally got busy, my breasts were hanging to my waist. They were heavy, saggy, and uneven and the nipples pointed in two different directions…..UGH. A breast lift and reduction was something I had wanted for years but it took a while to find that “Perfect” doctor. Please take your time in doing your search for the proper physician. Check credentials, ask to see pictures of patients who have had the same procedure done, get at least two opinions and don’t get frustrated.

I was fortunate that my health insurance paid for everything. Had it not I would have still done the surgery but would have waited a while longer to save the funds. I am five foot one inch tall and was carrying around a size 40DDD. Yes it hurt and my boobs entered the room before I did. I was tired of that being the focal point of me. I wanted to end up a full B or small C and that is exactly what I got.

Really communicate with your doctor and let him know your expectations. A good physician will be honest with you and help you work through your expectations. I ended up with a C-cup immediately following surgery but now I am down to a full B. That happened because of my 70 pound weight loss since surgery. Go figure that prior to surgery I never lost a pound in the breasts. But after I then start to shrink in the breasts. I am completely fine with it though because I love the small and perky breasts. The weight is gone and I no longer have any neck, back or shoulder pain.

Also the bonus was having both nipples facing forward and in proper position. Or as my hubby says “the headlights are facing forward” and not shining the side of the road. All clothing fits on top and I am no longer self conscious about my breast size. I am extremely happy that I went through with this procedure. The surgery itself was very easy with minimal pain. You will have swelling with soreness and a tight feeling for a couple of weeks.

Oh yes and let’s not forget the beautiful colors of the rainbow you will witness for weeks. You will go from black and blue to green, yellow and everything in-between. Your nipples will also look a bit funny with all of the sutures. But don’t worry because this all turns normal-looking soon. They will also have a strange shape for a while but don’t panic. Gravity soon sets in, swelling goes down and you will have natural tear drop shaped breasts. It just takes a while for them to drop.

Questions to ask during your consult:

1. How soon can I exercise after surgery?

2. May I see pictures of previous patients' results?

3. How much breast tissue are you able to remove?

4. How long will I need to be off work?

5. What are my post-op restrictions and for how long?

6. Approximately what will my final cup size be?

7. Where will my incisions be placed?

8. What surgical technique do you use?

9. How soon may I shower after surgery?

10. May I speak to a previous patient of yours regarding their experience?

Just make sure to really communicate with your doctor about your expectations. You need to be realistic but also need to be on the same page as your doctor. Make it clear how big or small you would like to be after the procedure. They will let you know if it is possible. Make sure to have at least 2-3 opinions before choosing your doctor.

Supplies for after surgery:

1. Prescribed pain medication

2. Tylenol

3. Ice packs

4. Surgical bras – you will need at least 2-3 of these. Make sure you wear the bras 24/7 for the first few months. It will help in shaping your new breasts. Only remove to shower and then back on with a clean bra. They are very comfortable and you will be glad to have them.

5. Palmer’s Vitamin E Skin Therapy Oil. To start using two weeks after surgery. This will help smooth and heal your scars. Massage them 2-3 times a day for months and your scars will be nearly invisible.

6. Gauze or cotton pads to place under your bra band and over your nipples. You will have some oozing for 7-14 days and this will help keep your bra dry and clean.

7. Stool softener….yes the surgery and pain meds do a number on your system. I started Milk of Magnesia the day after surgery and did so for five days.

8. Healthy protein, fruits and veggies. You need a healthy diet for proper healing. Also drink your water….

Feelings you will experience before and after surgery:

1. Excitement, you will love the new and perky breasts.

2. Anxiety about your final size and scars. With any surgery there are scars but these are mainly under the breast so hardly visible. The vertical scan and scar around the nipple will heal nicely and will end up a fine and faint white line.

3. You will have that pre-surgery power surge where you want to clean everything in your house. Go with it!

4. Urges to shop for new bras. Hold that thought and urge. Please do not buy any new bras until you are four months post-op. Your swelling will take a while to go down plus you really need to be wearing the surgical bra for as long as you can. It will help your healing and shape of the breast in the long run. And please do not wear any underwire bras for at least six months. They will rub on your incision under the breast and cause it to become thick and irritated.

5. If you have stitches in your nipples I have to say that it hurt like hell when they removed them. It smarts and is irritating.

6. The dreaded drains are a pain. They are not in very long so that is a good thing.

7. It takes the breasts about six months to have a great shape…you know that natural tear drop shape so don’t panic if they look a little odd at first.

8. The freaky looking nipples also tame down once the big black stitches are out. The first time I looked at them I was like what the #$&%. I am pretty sure my hubby had a panic attack when he looked at them. It really did look like something out of a horror movie.

9. My doctor used surgical glue over all my incisions which is really nice. It will slowly roll off over the next two weeks.

Surgery Day:

1. Wear loose and comfy clothes to the surgery center. This will just be more comfortable for the ride home. A zip up sweat shirt is the best.

2. They will give you happy pills and warm blankets…it doesn't get any better than that.

3. The doctor will come in and mark you up. Looks a little bit like a freak show when they are done sketching you up with the purple marker. My hubby enjoyed watching this take place. He kept making crazy jokes and trying to make me laugh.

4. Have your driver take the least bumpy route home. It hurts when you hit bumps and they are jerked around. OUCH..

5. Honestly you will feel pretty good the first day home. You are sore and swollen but not really in any horrible pain. You will feel some tightness but not bothersome.

6. You will be amazed at the perky new breasts. WOW they are right up there and look great.

You will feel so light and free of neck and shoulder pain. Enjoy your new perky rack! You will feel amazing and your confidence will be through the roof. And as usual let me know if you have any questions.

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Ok I am about 3 months post op from lift/reduction. I have really started to worry that my left is significantly fuller then my right. I tell my husband all the time I swear he forgot to reduce the left side! Should I be worried yet? I am told I really need to wait the full 6 months before considering revision. I can't really tell when clothes are on, but bras, swim tops or baked you can tell easily. I am worried it will need a revision and this is exactly what I feared. I did do research and on doctors- he has great history, I know there are no guarantees but am having a hard time seeing that this "swelling" is just that after three months?? Any ideas?
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My right side was significantly larger than my left. Turned out I had a hematoma, which was easily corrected. I went to my PS's office approx. 2x per week for about a month and he performed a needle aspiration to drain off the fluid. This was not painful I might add, in part because the underside of my breast is still some what numb. Each visit less and less fluid came off and eventually there was none to drain. Most complicated and inconvenient part was the constant driving to and from the office. Ask your PS if this could possibly be the reason for your asymmetry. Good Luck!
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I am in day 6 of my recovery from Breast Reduction surgery.. I went from a 40F to a full D. I am quite pleased with the outcome, yes they are funny shaped and remind me of "coconut boobs" but I am still ecstatic. Right now though I am feeling some really weird feeling in my breast and nipples.. rumbly like feelings and tingles. (hard to explain) My right nipple is completely numb and my right one is so sensitive it hurts to touch it..pre op they weren't very sensitive at all, so I'm not completely complaining.I was just wondering if all these odd sensations are all normal and part of the healing process?
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Thank you for sharing & glad you are mostly happy so soon. I had ongoing phantom pains/ discomfort for probably 2 months. I have been through many other surgeries and this discomfort is to be expected (and I liked your explanation of the odd sensations). Hang in there & keep us updated. I, too, am happy w/my smaller reduced w/a lift breasts & the last bra I bought was a 40C. Thrilled!
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Welcome to the community ladies.   Oh yes you will have all sorts of crazy feeling for a while.  Shooting pains, creepy crawly, tingly, numbness, sharp pain etc.  A bit like a strange carnival ride for a while.  

I had super hyper sensitive nipples for a while!!  About drove me mad.  And then the insane itching kicked in..Whoa!  It will all settle down with time so hang on tight.

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Its been 4 days of my breast augmentation. I am neither having pain except a few discomfort in just getting up & lying down, reachning for objects at a higher position thats all. I hope the results after removal of the surgical bra makes me happy & worth the effort. :)
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I had a breast lift and reduction 9 days ago. My original size was 34DD but on my small frame, they were just way too big and was always the first thing you noticed about me. Right now they look a little strange, do you have any postoperative pics of you and one of what yours look like now? I, too, asked for a fullB or small C
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The breasts take some time to take shape.  Are they a little boxey looking?   Don't panic they will take shape soon.   My pics are all posted on my profile for you to see.  Click Here for my Profile.

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Yes! Boxy is a good description..lol! Thank you :-)
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LOL..I know we don't want square boobies.  They take shape and will look natural and normal..promise:)

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I dont have pre & post pics. My biggest concern was breast discomfort. Also I have feared they would be be bigger than I had been told & they are a D. Actually, I am fine w/their size & am thrilled there in no overflow"
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Is there a specific one you would recommend for a breast lift?
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Nancy you can wear the same as you would for a reduction.  I liked the 2" band width bra.  It was so comfortable and nice.  If you clink on the link I have below it will take you right to the bra I mentioned.

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Kimmers25 what kind of bra? Thanks for info.
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My doctor uses the Merena Surgical Bras.  They are so comfortable!!  

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Ok thanks so much :-)
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Thanks so much for writing this- its really helped me write my list of things to get, I've only got just over a week to go now!
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You are completely welcome.  The count down is on for you!

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I am 4 weeks post small reduction and lift. I am still sore especially at the end of the day. I am looking for GOOD SUPPORTIVE BRA. Any good recommendations?
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Thank you so much for this Kimmers. I had read this weeks ago when I first discovered Real Self but reading it again as I am so close to my op date! I love how honest you are but in a lovely affectionate way. Thanks again, I really value your advice. xx
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Thank you cariad:)   I am so glad this was of help to you.  Please keep me up to date on how you are doing after surgery:)

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Having a tummy tuck and breast lift on the same day, but now I'm having second thoughts on the BL. I'm 5'3" and wear 38DDD. They are a little saggy, but not awful. But then I think with the TT and Lipo, if I keep them the way they are, I'll look pretty freaky. I go in for my preop consult next week, so I'll have to think about it more.
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Keep an open mind and just talk to your doctor.  It will all work out:)

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I had the date wrong for my BR, it's actually july 13th. Would it be too soon to go on vacation on july 25th?
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Just had breast reductcion-lift on 5/7/12. I went from a 34DDD, which my dr, said i only looked like a full d, to what i was hoping would be a c, but not even close yet. Now my right breast is perky and firm, and my left breast had to have 90cc of blood drained after 2 weeks and now the skin seems very loose and the size is still bigger than the right. i am feeling very discouraged about the results. my husband was never for the surgery and his fears have come true about my dislikes of the results
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