Newport Beach Restylane doctors

You would do well with Restylane in your tear troughs.  You don't need blepharoplasty.  You do need to find someone experienced in this technique.  It sounds like you are asking the right questions because you found out that the plastic surgeon you consulted is not experienced in the technique!  Just consult with a few more physicans (plastic surgeons or dermatologists) who perform a lot of fillers.  You will find someone. 

Don't take any aspirin, ibuprofen, naproxen, or other NSAID one week prior to injection to minimize the chance of bruising. 

Assuming the Restylane was injected in the usual places in the lip, it will not be associated with any poor result from the rhinoplasty.  Additionally, you are not an idiot.  A Facial Plastic Surgeon will listen to what your desires are and come up with a safe way to get there.  

I would suggest seeing a board-certified Facial Plastic Surgeon.  They are the only surgeons who deal exclusively with the face and neck.  Often, fillers aren't the best choice for sunken eyes.  In addition, Restylane may not be the best choice.  It often will migrate after a few months and leave little bags under the eyes.  The placement of the filler is important.  Sometimes, only a subtle sub dermal injection is needed.  Often, a deeper injection is required.  Someone who has operated on the structures around the lower lid many times is best able to place the injection in the correct area.  Please use Arnica and Bromelin before the injection and avoid aspirin.  This will lead to decreased bruising.